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HAPPINESS AND
SADNESS: But you happy men, you to whom the word 'sadness' is an invitation to
happiness, a bridge and not an obstacle to your subsequent happiness, a
reprieve and a homecoming at the same time - see to it, you happy men, that you
do not lose track of happiness in the jungle of your sadness!
Beware those men who would have you cut
back on your sadness to a point where you can hardly discern your happiness
because there is all path and no jungle. They are very often the 'teachers of
happiness', but their teachings are such that the man who follows them becomes
sadder than he would otherwise be, and eventually loses himself in their
complications. Instead of setting out
simple rules for the guidance of the student, they set his path with tricks and
traps which only confuse him the more.
Instead of showing him the way to greater happiness, they bind him to
formulae which prevent his discovering it.
Instead of making him happier, they teach him to cut back on his
happiness so that he may become less sad.
Such, my readers, is the wisdom of the 'teachers of happiness'!
But you have no need of such lethal advice,
you happy men, for you do not fear sadness and neither do you wish to escape
it. You know that without sadness there
would be no happiness, and that he who wishes to be
happy must first learn to accept sadness and not foolishly endeavour to escape
it.
Sadness, you happy men, is not the enemy of
your happiness but its closest friend.
It is 'she', and no other, who gives you happiness and then takes it
away when you have had enough, in order that you may have more when you deserve
it. It is 'she', and no other, who gives
meaning to your happiness and, by breaking it up, prevents you from becoming
bored with it. It is 'she', and no
other, who makes happiness possible, and whom you ought to thank for it. So what is a book on happiness to you happy
men, but an excuse for merriment at the expense of some dupe's illusions?
Be careful then, you happy men, that you
are not led astray by the 'enemies of sadness', else you may quickly lose track
of your happiness as well! It is not
your fate to become a living corpse!