Revaluation of Self and Not-self according to Gender.
Although the time-honoured distinction of soma preceding - and
predominating over - psyche for females and of psyche preceding - and
preponderating over - soma for males goes to the heart of my philosophy, I was
unable, in the past, to draw the necessary conclusions with regard to the self
vis-à-vis the not-self, since, quite contrary to other contexts, I confined the
self to psyche and the not-self to soma, and this irrespective of gender.
The truth of the matter, however, would seem to point in a more flexible
direction: namely, that the self is soma for females and psyche for males, with
the not-self, conversely, as psyche for females and soma for males. For
only on such a basis can it be logically established that the binding of psyche
to soma (in the hegemonic female case) or of soma to psyche (in the hegemonic
male case) is consequent upon the self being identified with what is free and
the not-self with what is bound. Therefore if psyche is bound to free
soma in the female case, it is because psyche is identifiable with the not-self
and soma with the self, whereas if soma is bound to free psyche in the male
case it is because soma is identifiable with the not-self and psyche with the
self. No small distinction! But, either way, the self is that which
is free and the not-self the factor subordinately bound to it. Females
and males are, as I had already established with a partly defective logic,
antithetical in their sense of self. The self is not one thing, say
psyche, and the not-self simply the correlative opposite of that thing.
The self is soma or psyche according to gender. Therefore self precedes not-self as soma preceding psyche in the female
case and as psyche preceding soma in the case of males. There is not one
self, or not-self for that matter, but two types of self which, according with
gender, exist in a constant tug-of-war and mutual antipathy. If the
female is hegemonic, as in sensuality, the self will be identified with soma
and the not-self with what is contrary to soma, namely psyche. If the
male is hegemonic, as in sensibility, the self will be identified, by contrast,
with psyche and the not-self with what is contrary to psyche, namely
soma. So it is with the concept of freedom, as with a plethora of related
concepts, including that of supremacy, the light, play, etc. which continue, as
with freedom in relation to binding, to dominate primacy, the dark, work, etc.
from opposite gender standpoints and, as a rule, in relation to opposite types
of society and, hence, civilization.