Now, where was I? Ah, yes.
But if at
At
that first meeting, I felt that my physical presence caused him a certain unease - I am aware of that with others, also, who
draw back when they see me. I once remarked to Reggie Turner that I had the figure of Nero;
Reggie, who has a tongue of fire, replied, 'But made out of suet, Oscar.' Well, Pater retired
to a safe distance in the event of my toppling over. We saw much of each other after that, but
there was always a curious nervousness about our meetings. I remember once, in a moment of threnody when
we were discussing the Symposium, inadvertently placing my hand upon his
arm and he started as though I had seared him with a brand. It was a moment of supreme discomfort for
both of us.
He
would finger a tortoiseshell paperknife as he spoke, continually rubbing it on
the table in front of him. He was
capable of the most extraordinary enthusiasms, and then his Sibylline
whisper would change to a louder note.
Ruskin, I think, despised him but that did not prevent him from speaking
of Ruskin with great reverence. Poor Pater, I felt - and still feel - for him an infinite pity
mixed with an infinite gratitude. 'I
want,' he told me once, 'to lift the veil of the blindfold - to see life in its
exact relations.' I do not believe he
ever did. He was too retiring and
innocent a man to understand that life cannot be seen. It can only be suffered.
But
I owe Pater everything: just as I learnt in his prose
the secrets of his bashful art, so it was through his eyes that I first saw
myself as an artist. In his delicate
praise of my work, he gave me the gift of self-awareness and it was he who
suggested the direction I was later to follow: he urged me to forsake the
revelations of poetry for the intimations of prose. Poetry, he said, was the higher art; but
prose was the more difficult.
And
indeed my own poetry was perhaps too facile.
I worked swiftly, under the direct impress of those modes which most
fascinated me. I saw everything as
words, for in words could I hide from myself.
Without them I stumbled blindly.
I addressed myself to the gods because I did not wish to see that which
was closer to hand. It seems to me now
that many of my poems were written to young men but, since I called them by
Greek or Roman names, neither I nor they knew anything whatever about it. I carried the shield of the true poet
everywhere with me, not understanding then that a shield can crush one also.
In
my last year I won the Newdigate Prize for an elegy
on
When
the poem was published in volume form, I suffered agonies of conscience. There is something both magnificent and
terrible about one's first book - it goes out into the world unwillingly
because it takes so much of its creator with it also, and the creator always
wishes to call it home. I wrote the poem
in a deliberately conventional manner and yet, by wearing the mask of my own
age, I realise that I could express quite directly my own feelings. Although in their natural state they were
quite deficient in form, I was able in my verse to