literary transcript

 

CHAPTER VII

 

Plato Looks at the Family

 

IN the two previous chapters we have seen something of the modern Plato's attitude to British democracy, and of his suggestions for its reform.  Not content to examine institutions or modes of government, he has tried to analyse the social tradition which inspires them and to discover the principles according to which its development should proceed.  His advice can be summed up quite briefly.  Preserve at all costs your aristocratic tradition, that ruling is the responsibility of the few; but purge it of the corrupting influences, which the industrial revolution brought, by the deliberate formation of a new aristocracy of intellect and character, which will resolutely aim at political power and use it for the enforcement of reason and justice.

      This advice is in effect a demand for revolutionary action; for it involves the exclusion from political power of the property owner and of the mass of the people.  But it is not revolution of the accepted kind, since it is neither in the interest of the capitalists nor of the proletariat.  The Platonic statesman would be equally opposed to the dictatorship of the 'haves' and to that of the 'have nots', seeing in both the domination of one social group and the perpetuation of the class struggle.  Finding his inspiration in the past, he would try to restore the harmony of interests which he would claim existed before the bourgeois revolution, and for this reason he can be called a conservative revolutionary.  For his aim is at all costs to preserve the ethos of the British tradition from the dangers of Liberalism and Fascism and Communism.  This ethos, he believes, still lives in the hearts of the people, but it has been strangled by the foreign excrescences which the industrial revolution plastered over it.  These he must tear off, in order that the true spirit of the community can flourish again.

      But political and economic revolution is not enough.  After any such violent changes, it is only a matter of time before the new Government begins to abuse its power.  There never has been and never will be a revolution which did not teem with good intentions and inaugurate a new era of social justice.  But once the transference of power has been accomplished and a new class has occupied the seat of government, a change occurs.  The economic advantages of political control become apparent to the new rulers, their good intentions are forgotten, and the common man to whom freedom was promised finds himself enslaved once more.  Revolution therefore is a waste of time and human life, unless it is accompanied by a change in the men who make it, as well as in the institutions they control.

      To change men is far more difficult than to change institutions.  For the latter can be destroyed and rebuilt by the application of force, the former cannot.  Man cannot be forced to be good: he can only be trained and persuaded and cajoled into seeing the folly of his ways.  A statesman can draft a law and publish it: he can even compel men to obey it.  But he himself is under no such compulsion, and it is the maker of laws who must be just and honest if a constitution is to work.  On his morality depends the happiness of the community, and unless he freely accepts the commands of justice, he will be a tyrant, and not a true ruler.

      But the moral code is not purely a matter for the individual will, nor is the individual entirely free to accept or to reject it.  He is himself a product of it, and conditioned by the institutions of the society in which he lives.  The human soul is not a mysterious force with a life of its own, floating in a spiritual ether outside the everyday world of action, every now and then darting down to assert, 'This is right and that is wrong', but a member of that world, conditioned by it and conditioning it too.  We are both creatures and creators of our environment, and freedom is just the consciousness of this fact and the understanding of its implications.  I am not free to jump thirty feet across a river: the laws of gravity and the structure of my body limit my freedom.  But I am free to study the workings of nature and to build a bridge across which I can safely walk.  Again, I am not free to renounce the morality of my home and country and civilization; I cannot do it because it is part of my personality and a mainspring of my will.  But I am free to study that morality, to analyse its implications, and in the light of that knowledge to try to modify it and redirect it in the direction which I think right.

      This understanding and redirection of current morality must be undertaken if any political revolution is to achieve success.  The statesman must change not only the constitution and laws and economic system, but also the moral and social institutions by which men live.  For the former must ultimately conform to the latter.  If the ruling class behave aggressively and self-assertively in their private lives, and their moral code encourages such behaviour, then no political reform will permanently prevent war; instead, social habits will modify the political institutions to suit themselves.  If the acquisitive instinct is stimulated by religion or morality, then no Communist society will remain Communist for long: property will make its appearance in some form or other.

      The Platonic statesman therefore, like the modern Communist, cannot admit that private life and morality are the concern only of the individual.  For him there is no distinction of self-regarding and other-regarding actions.  The most intimate secrets of private life must be opened to him and he must analyse and direct them in the proper way.

      If we ask what are the most important elements in our private life, there can be no real doubt of the correct answer.  Marriage and the family are the central institutions of all human societies.  They engage our attention for more hours a day than anything, except perhaps our work: they are the cause of more happiness and misery than any other single factor, and lastly, they are the thread upon which the future race depends.  They are therefore the first institutions which we must analyse, trying both to discover their raison d'être and to consider the part they must play in the social order.

      Plato's attitude to them was as simple as it was revolutionary.  With the Greek city-state in mind, he proposed their total abolition for all members of the ruling élite.  No ruler in his State is allowed to be a husband or a wife.  The men and women will live together in common barracks, without privacy and on perfectly equal terms.  Permanent relationships between them will be forbidden as absolutely as free love.  There will be neither promiscuity nor marriage, because they will all be so intent on the work of government and the discovery of truth that they cannot be allowed to waste time on personal relations.

      But children will be needed for the State, and so regular religious festivals will be arranged where those suitable and eugenically fit will be brought together.  On these occasions special privileges will be granted to those who have distinguished themselves in battle or in public service, and it will be ensured that the best citizens produce most children.  Women will be allowed to mate between twenty and forty, men between twenty-five and forty-five, but no permanent relations may be entered into.  They must meet once only in the sacred festival and then depart upon their respective businesses.

      When the child is born it will be taken from its mother and brought up in a State nursery.  The mother may come to suckle it, but the greatest care is taken to prevent her recognizing her own child, for all the rulers are one family and the mother must regard all children equally hers.  So, too, with the children: they must never know who their parents are, but treat all the elders of the ruling class as fathers and mothers, all their contemporaries as brothers and sisters.  For they are to be trained to be not private citizens with private interests, but public servants caring only for the State.

      That, in short, is Plato's revolutionary plan for the ideal relationship of man to woman and of parent to child.  But he did not propose it for the man in the street, and more than he proposed the abolition of private property for him.  The subject classes were to be allowed everything a man could wish - except self-government.  Only the members of the ruling class were to have no property, no wives or husbands and no families, and Plato gave three reasons for this strange regulation of the rulers' life.  In the first place he argued that if a man really cares about his job he will not want to be distracted by marriage or by children.  Love and marriage are two of the most disturbing things in life.  They take up a great deal of time and they are an interruption to any profession or trade.  The more wrapped up he is in his job the more a man tends to neglect his family, and Plato argued that if he is really interested in the work for its own sake, then he will not want to be distracted by wife or children.  In the case of civilians the distractions will not matter so much, because they are under the absolute dictatorship of the ruling class.  The lovelorn farmer or the banker who is too much of a family man can be kept up to scratch by Government control.  But there is no-one to supervise the ruling élite, and so they must be relieved of these distractions.  The ruler must not be a bread-winner or a family man: he must be interested in philosophy to the exclusion of everything else; and if he is, then he will not want, and must not be allowed to have, a wife and family.

      When Plato abolished marriage and the family he was not preaching a doctrine of free love and easy morals.  He was demanding a more rigid self-control for his ruling class than the ordinary man can achieve.  His ideal was not unlike that of the monk or priest who takes vows of celibacy and tries to sublimate his earthly emotions and his human love into love of God and service to the community.  But the Platonic ruler differs from the monk in two particulars.  Firstly, he considers the future: he sees that if no-one marries there will be no children; and since the rulers are the pick of the population it is their duty to have as many children as is consistent with their efficiency as rulers.  So Plato advocated not celibacy for his rulers, but eugenics, the breeding of children as carefully as horses or dogs are bred today, and with as little personal interest in the woman or the child as the expert horse breeder feels in his horses.  The really responsible citizen, says Plato, must not produce children just to satisfy a personal whim or to please someone he or she is in love with.  The children must be produced for the State, and according to scientific principles of breeding.  They are not to be mere products of love, or by-products of personal pleasures.  Child-bearing is, in fact, a duty, like soldiering or administering the State, and must be strictly regarded as such.  That is the first difference between the morality of Plato's ruler and that of the monk or the Catholic priest.

      In the second place, Plato did not believe that human love or physical passion were in themselves wicked as some religious people are inclined to believe.  No Greek could believe the body evil: the Greeks knew more of its beauty than any other nation, and human love seemed to them the most natural thing in the world, with its natural expression in physical emotion.  Plato was a moralist but he was not a Puritan, and he saw no reason to forbid his rulers the pleasures of physical intercourse any more than he forbade them the pleasures of physical exercise or of food and drink.  Such pleasures, in his view, do no harm in their proper place; they are not in themselves wicked: but they are wrong if they distract rulers from their work.  So love and physical emotion were permissible in his view if they were kept strictly on a level with other physical emotions, if, in fact, they were depersonalized and given no continuity or permanence.  Plato would not have minded his rulers liking nice furniture or beautiful buildings: only they must not want to possess them.  So, too, with human love: if it was treated as a passing pleasure, like a glass of good wine, Plato would have found it wholesome: but if it meant falling in love with someone, wanting to be with her always, missing her when she was away, worrying whether she cared for you, and so on - then Plato would have said it had become a distraction and must be forbidden to the man whose work was ruling.

      For this reason, if no other, Plato would have welcomed the invention of contraceptives and encouraged their use among his élite.  For the contraceptive emphasizes the distinction between the two aspects of sex as an expression of love and as a means of procreation.  By decreasing anxiety with regard to childbirth, it allows a more carefree pleasure in the sexual act and enables man to plan the breeding of children scientifically.  Plato had admitted the use of abortion to destroy children produced by women too old for perfect childbearing and since he encouraged his rulers after a certain age to be free in their sexual intercourse provided they did not lose interest in their work, the contraceptive would have seemed to him an instrument by the use of which reason can control matter and still further depersonalize the sexual act.

      This brings us to Plato's second reason for forbidding marriage and the family to his ruling class.  Falling in love, he argued, and wanting a family are really expressions of the acquisitive instinct.  He had forbidden his ruling class any form of property whatsoever, and so he argued that marriage and the family, which are really a sort of property, must be forbidden to them too.  The love of man for woman is based on a longing for ownership and pride of possession.  Each in their own way, husband and wife regard each other as a possession to be jealously guarded.  Each of them usually dislikes it if the other shows too much interest in the opposite sex.  Why is this unless their feelings are fundamentally possessive?  We tend to think of the lover as a romantic figure full of self-sacrifice and devotion.  Plato thought he was far more concerned with getting hold of something he wanted, enjoying it in private and enjoying the fact that no-one else could share his enjoyment.  Human love between man and woman was in his view a sort of mutual ownership which built a wall round the two people and cut them off from other people.

      And the same, in Plato's view, applies to the family.  It is an exclusive organization, a private world into which we try to escape, and in the security of which we seek comfort and satisfaction.  Even if we do make sacrifices for our children's education and feel ourselves highly magnanimous in doing so, we do it because they are our children and we are proud of our productions.  A man will sacrifice time and money for his garden, to make it beautiful: a woman may expend hours on improving her appearance.  They would not claim to be disinterested in doing either of these things.  But is not their attitude to their children very much the same?  They want the children to be successes, not really for the children's sake, but because the children belong to them and they want their children to win the prizes of life in competition against their neighbours'.

      Plato thought this exclusive sense of property was an inevitable accompaniment to marriage, and that for this reason marriage was just as dangerous to the ruler as property.  It would corrupt his loyalty to the State and give him a private interest which would distract him from his job.  For Plato was a revolutionary; he wanted his pupils to be men who could work miracles and change the world: and he thought that the only people that really change the world are the people who have no feeling for private property as such, even wives and children.  Four hundred and fifty years later Jesus was to urge the same thing to His chosen apostles.  He, too, insisted that they should give up father and mother and family - everything for His sake.  But, like Plato, He realized this vocation could only be for the few, and added the text: 'He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.'  Everyone is not capable of the supreme sacrifice.  The real revolutionary, the man or woman who is to transform the world, must put his work first and his friends second.  He must renounce them, not grudgingly with a feeling of loss, but gladly, because he cares for something infinitely more valuable.  He cannot have friends or family in the usual sense of the word because he is so intent upon achieving his ideal of human society that he has no time or interest for individual human beings.  In his personal relations he will probably seem cold and inhuman, irresponsible and changeable, as if he did not care about any human beings at all.  He cares too passionately for humanity to feel much love for human beings.

      In the third place Plato argued that marriage must involve an inferior status for women.  In the Athens of his day it was little more than the purchase by the man of a chattel to manage his household and bear him children.  The wife was economically dependent on her husband, she had no political rights, and she was not given any education.  She was not even a labourer since she received no wages and had no defence against exploitation, but a bond-servant at the mercy of her parents as to whom she married, of her husband when she was married.  Plato could not permit such slaves to be members of his ruling class and to live with his élite.  He ruling class demanded women who were the equal of their men, and he saw that if they are to be this then they cannot be relegated to the home.  He did not deny that most women are physically weaker than men, and he also believed that they were intellectually inferior.  But he did not think that a sufficient reason for confining all women to the home and refusing them citizen rights.  He claimed, instead, that the best women should be educated exactly as the best men are educated.  In his ruling class there was to be no differential treatment of the sexes at all.  They were to live together and even to fight together on terms of absolute equality.

      It is one of the ironies of history that the phrase 'Platonic love' should have come to mean a spiritual relationship devoid of physical desire.  Such love, in Plato's view, was fit only for God, and he never advocated it between his citizens.  He assumed that human beings will express the love they feel for one another, and it was in an effort to raise the level of that love from self-assertion to partnership that he abolished marriage.  The inferior place of women in Greece has resulted in the assumption by men of culture that true love could only be felt by man for man.  Homosexual relationships were regarded as nobler than marriage, and Socrates, though he disapproved of certain forms of perversion, had always regarded his marriage and family as civic duties, inferior in value to his friendships with young men.  This the Greek ideal of chivalry often became homosexual in character - the love of the adult for the boy, not the love of man for woman.

      Plato remained at heart a Greek.  The ideal for him was the love of man for man, and his twofold aim was to purify homosexual relationships of their physical brutalities and at the same time to raise the relationship of man and woman to the homosexual level.  Men were to treat women as they treated boys, and to forget as far as possible that they bore children.  His rulers should fall in love with one another, disregarding their differences of sex, man with man or woman with woman or man with woman.  They should not take these affairs too seriously or become wrapped up in the physical side, but should regard the physical desires as minor pleasures, compared to the real delights of companionship and cooperation and intellectual discussion.

      For Plato was convinced that love is the basis of true philosophy.  A true friendship will start on the physical plane and should not be thwarted on that plane.  But soon it will transcend the body and, as it matures, will become the cooperation of equals in the achievement of a common purpose.  The lovers will feel themselves rivals in their life's work, encouraging and helping and competing with one another, and finally they will find the consummation of desire in dialectic and discussion and philosophizing which alone can attain truth.  With this inspiration, the lovers cease to be 'in love', since their love is now centred on truth, and they will regard sexual satisfaction as 'play' and relaxation from the enterprise which they share. [See the speech of Diotima in the SYMPOSIUM.]

      Thus Plato was forced to deny that sex differentiation is in any way fundamental, in order to maintain that Reason, the immortal part of the soul, is shared by men and women alike.  If woman is not to be relegated to the Mohammedan level, she must be held capable of philosophy, and her sexual differences regarded as accidental to her true nature.  In that case, the distinction of normal and perverse relations is unreal, since the friendship of two rational beings is equally good, to whichever sex they belong.  It is only when we descend to the utilitarian level and consider the procreation of children, that sex difference becomes important; but here love must cease, to be replaced by civic obligation and the iron discipline of eugenic law.

      The abolition of marriage was a tremendous assertion of the rights of woman.  It raised her to the level of man, and it postulated her rational nature.  But it has never been kindly received by Plato's readers, who are often shocked by its 'immorality', its equanimity in the face of perversion, and its clear separation of sexual pleasure from procreation.  Plato knew that this would happen.  Recognizing the strength of taboo and superstition, he put it forward in a very tentative fashion, but there is no part of his writing which surpasses this passage [See REPUBLIC Book V.] in its style, imagination, or philosophical clarity.  In the fact of every instinct and prejudice, he was clear-sighted enough to see that, if women were equals of men, and to be treated as such, then sexual morality must be drastically altered and marriage and the family, in the form in which he knew them, must be abolished.

      But can you free women from their bondage?  Plato thought it was only possible for a select few.  Most women are happiest uneducated and doing the work of the home, just as most men are happiest in the security of subjection to dictatorship.  But the women of the ruling class, if they are to be worthy partners of the men and produce worthy children, must be free, and to achieve this Plato saw no other way open than to abolish marriage and the family.  It was essential for man and woman alike.  Given marriage, he said, man will always be the dominant partner, the possessor, woman the passive recipient, the possessed.  And she will compensate for this inferior position by accentuating her sexual charms and becoming the possessor in matters of physical emotion.  She will spend time and money on making herself beautiful and attractive, and she will long for the power over men which those attractions afford.  Plato was a feminist not only in the sense that he wanted to free the best women from the bondage of the family; he also wanted to free them from the ambitions which that bondage imposed on them.

      It is often said that women are more influenced than men by consideration of persons.  They think in terms of people, not of programmes and ideas, and they accept ideas not because they are true, but because those ideas are associated in their minds with male admirers.  Plato would argue that this was due to their inferior position.  They never can get away from personal relations because they are economically and mentally dependent on men.  And so their whole ambitions are concentrated either on captivating men or on making their children into successes.  To free them from these narrow ambitions, to get them to look beyond persons, to ideas, and to give them real intellectual and moral independence, he was willing to abolish the home, and he argued that most women would not like this at all.  They would not be willing to surrender the power which physical charm gives them, or to be treated by men exactly as though they were colleagues of slightly inferior ability.  They would feel slighted and disappointed when they could no longer rely on the chivalry and romantic love of the dominant male.  But women, in Plato's view, cannot have it both ways: they cannot break up the home and demand perfect equality and then use that equality merely to further their womanly ambitions.  And for this reason only a woman who is prepared to be treated as a colleague and fellow-worker would be allowed to be a member of his ruling class.  If the woman wants to rely on her charms, then she must accept the inferior position and the inferior responsibilities of home life.  She can enjoy either the chivalry of men or equality with men, but she cannot have both.

 

      It is not sufficient to treat this theory with disgust and ridicule, or to assert that it is the product of the perversions of a degenerate age and therefore has no applicability today.  Modern feminist movements have nearly always urged the complete equalization of the sexes, and advocated the opening of all professions to women.  Claiming that women are 'as good' as men, they have tried to break down all the ties which bind women to home and husband, and have often advocated a free and voluntary partnership of the sexes.  Their propaganda has taken the line that women should be allowed to behave as men behave, not that women should be free to develop their special talents.  And for this reason women's education and sport have been definitely modelled on that of men, notwithstanding the fact that on these lines women as a whole are usually inferior to men.  We have only to examine the European university to see that Plato's arguments are still the assumptions of feminism and of advanced educational theory.

      But modern theory has not often seen as clearly as Plato the consequences of this assumption.  If the proper place of woman in society is alongside man, if there is no distinction of civic function between them, and the 'good life' is identical for both sexes, then the chief justification of marriage as a permanent union disappears.  Two men may be good friends and decide to live together, but it would be fantastic for them to consummate a permanent union: why, then, should the bond between a man and a woman, each devoted to his or her professional work, be inviolable provided that, with the aid of scientific technique, they produce no children, or alternatively that the State takes over the education of the family?  And secondly, if woman, like man, is to put her profession first and her home second, can it still be asserted that the home is the best place for the upbringing of children at all?  The justification for the home as the educational centre disappears when woman regards it as the place of relaxation from her daily work.

      Whether we like it or not, the equalization of the sexes must seek to approximate the life of women to that of men, if for no other reason because men have dominated society and male activity and education have been the model of feminist agitation.  There is no special function for women in society, apart from the care of children and home, because there never has been: and therefore feminism is the assertion by the inferior sex that she can live a man's life nearly as well as men.  By this assertion woman denies her differences and special excellences, and is content to 'place second fiddle' to the dominant male, as boys ape their adult idols.  And so the attempt to demand 'equality of status' confirms woman in an inferior position, making her the weaker competitor in a race she must always lose.  The chivalry which men felt for a sex which, in spite of its physical and theoretical inferiority, could do many things better than they, is replaced by a kindly sympathy and encouragement for a weaker rival.  And conversely the marriage partnership in which a man's capacities were increased by his wife's personal help and encouragement, so that she, as a woman, actually contributed something to his work which no man could give, is turned into an unequal rivalry, with all the friction that rivalry must bring.  The failure of many modern marriages must be attributed to Platonic ideals: and the decrease in the birth-rate is due not so much to the introduction of contraceptives, as to their use by women in order to liberate themselves from the bondage of the family.  Contraceptives have never stopped a mother from having a family if she wanted to have one: to her they are only a god-given method of protecting her family's best interests from the sexual passion of the unruly male.

      Plato faces us with the full problem of 'feminism'.  Granted the initial assumption that woman to be free must adopt the life of man, he shows (1) that in this case she is likely to be a weaker rival, (2) that the care of children must be taken from her, and (3) that in a society of free men and women sexual pleasure and child-bearing will be divorced from one another.  The former will become an individual gratification of private desire, the latter a civic obligation whose control can only be entrusted to the State.  But he also shows that this new form of society will only survive if it can produce a new self-control and a new sexual morality.  Men and women may declare themselves 'equal' and proclaim that the old era of male possession and female slavery is closed.  Such declarations will have no effect against deep-seated habits so long as permanent marriage-unions are retained.  For sexual passion is possessive and jealous.  The lover, so long as he is in love, wants some sort of 'permanent' union.  If, therefore, woman claims equality of opportunity in a society where the institution of marriage is still preserved, the result will be not the depersonalization of sexual relations, but an intensification of the romantic bond.  There will be more divorces - but while they last marriages will be more passionate and more jealous than before.  Sex will become a dominant fact in social life, disturbing the efficiency of the worker even more than before.  For, although the social utility of marriage will have been destroyed, the institution will remain as a justification and an incentive to possessiveness and jealous.  to equalize the sexes, while retaining the institutions of marriage and the family, is in Plato's view to have the worst of two contrasted moral systems.

      This would be Plato's judgement on our age, and on our astonishing obsession with sexual problems.  He would not call us really equal, since equality of the sexes, in his view, can only be achieved where passion is depersonalized, and false romance suppressed by the abolition of all permanent unions.  The justification for permanent marriage was the existence of the family.  When this is gone, sexual possessiveness and marriage have no social utility, and the former becomes the jealous passion of a child shouting that no-one shall share its toys.  The idea that either man or woman has the right to enjoy friendship as a private pleasure, where there is no social justification for this privacy, would repel Plato, just as it would repel him if a man claimed to exclude everyone from his property, when he was not working on it or enriching the community with its produce.  Marriage, like private ownership, when it ceases to be socially beneficial, becomes a social disease.

      And so we are faced with a tragic dilemma.  If woman is to be free and gain the status of man, then sexual possessiveness - and marriage with it - must be suppressed.  If, on the other hand, we value the institution of the family and doubt our powers to change the deep-seated instincts of sexual life, then woman must renounce the status of man and retain the marriage partnership as the chief function of her life.  There is only one way out of this dilemma and Plato took it.  He suggested that some men and women are capable of a higher morality, but most are not.  If we follow Plato, however, we must face the fresh problem which a differential morality brings, and devise a legal system under which there is one code for the élite and another for the common people.

      Plato would suggest that we had almost reached this stage today without realizing it.  We are divided into the emancipated and the traditionally minded, but the emancipated are not aware of their responsibilities.  They are content to use the scientific discoveries of birth-control for the gratification of personal pleasure, and to pour an easy ridicule on the superstitious folly and brutalities of the conservative majority.  They claim that they alone are free and reasonable: but although they renounce the old morality, they are enslaved by their own obsessions and refuse to subject themselves voluntarily to the sterner discipline which true equality demands.  They do not realize that the common man may, in fact, be happier and contented to remain 'brutal' and 'uncivilized', because they forget that the social and economic conditions of his life are vastly different from their own leisured and wealthy freedom.  The instability and unhappiness of modern life arise chiefly in Plato's view from this irresponsibility of the leisured intelligentsia whose reason is employed, not on the constructive task of discovering the new self-discipline which a changing world demands, but in ridiculing an institution whose social utility they disregard.

      Plato would have cited the first phase of the Russian Revolution as an example of this false Liberalism with regard to morality, a crude misapplication of his own theory to modern life.  Basing themselves on the philosophy of Marx, the Communists urged that to reform society they must reform private morality as well.  They, too, broke up the home because it made woman the bond-servant of man and because children should be the possession not of the parents but of the State.  Encouraging women to work as the equals of men, they made State crèches and nurseries where the children could be left while the parents were at work, and they enabled men and women to get divorced as easily as we allow them to get married.  They did this not because they disbelieved in morality and convention, but because they wanted to abolish private ownership by one person of another person's life.  They argued that if you disapprove of the private ownership of the means of production, because it puts the worker at the mercy of the employer, then you must also disapprove of marriage because it makes women and children dependent on the whims and fancies of the father.  And so in the 1920s the Russian Revolution was not only an experiment in economic planning, but also an experiment in a new social morality and a new relationship of man to woman and of parents to children.

      But there was one difference between this Communist attitude to the family and that which Plato advocated.  Just as Plato was content to leave most people their private property, so he was content to leave most people their family life.  His Communism was a Communism of the élite.  There, as everywhere else, the Russians, to start with, were more democratic.  Their Communism was for everyone, just as their education was for everyone, and so they made their new social morality a universal code, and tried to free all the women of Russia from what they called the servitude of marriage.  The freedom which Plato thought that only a select few would appreciate was given by the Communists to every citizen of the Union of Soviet Socialist Republics.

      Long ago, in 1848, Karl Marx wrote a warning which Lenin left unheeded.  He said that if we merely abolish the restraints and restrictions of marriage we break down morality and level human life down to the standard of the beast.  By given men and women absolute freedom in their sexual life we let lust and greed run rampant, and women who were previously the private property of men become the public property of all who care to use them.  Their position is worse than before: for now they are the common spoil of the whole community.

      Something very like this did happen in the early years of the Russian Revolution.  An old morality was abolished and in its place came a freedom which the ordinary man and woman were not strong enough to enjoy.  A few idealists in Russia did not abuse their new freedom: the common man either abused it or disliked it, and under Stalin the Russians began to build up a new code of social morality.  Wanton promiscuity and frequent divorce are now [presumably 1936 - editor's note] frowned upon: parents are held responsible for their children.  It is clear already from the Russian experiment that to abolish the home is to expect a standard of conduct far too high for the common man, and on this point Plato's pessimism has been justified.