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SUCCESSFUL
FAILURES: No man is absolutely or strictly a failure; he is only a failure
intermittently. Whatever the level of
life on which he happens to be living, he will experience his periodic successes
together (though not simultaneously) with his periodic failures. A failure per se, if such a person
could exist, would be totally without successes. But to be totally without successes would
also mean to be totally without failures, since the former cannot exist without
the latter, the former are a consequence of the latter and therefore dependent
upon the latter for their existence.
We assume a person to be a failure when he
hasn't achieved something he desired, but overlook the fact that he may have
achieved something else, if only to disillusion himself with the desire in
question. Now many people whom we
customarily and perhaps even naively regard as successes on account, for
example, of their current wealth, status, fame, etc., may often regard
themselves in quite a different light - a light, I mean, in which only they can
see, and which exposes, amongst other things, their frustrated ambitions.
For where it may be the ambition of one man
to attain fame, a man who is already famous will have other ambitions, some of
which he may realize, others of which he may not. But, irrespective of their personal
circumstances, both men will experience similar feelings as regards their
respective ambitions, since they will be subject to the same conditions -
namely those of success and failure.